SSL: save sessions for upstream peers using a callback function.

SSL: save sessions for upstream peers using a callback function.

In TLSv1.3, NewSessionTicket messages arrive after the handshake and
can come at any time.  Therefore we use a callback to save the session
when we know about it.  This approach works for < TLSv1.3 as well.
The callback function is set once per location on merge phase.

Since SSL_get_session() in BoringSSL returns an unresumable session for
TLSv1.3, peer save_session() methods have been updated as well to use a
session supplied within the callback.  To preserve API, the session is
cached in c->ssl->session.  It is preferably accessed in save_session()
methods by ngx_ssl_get_session() and ngx_ssl_get0_session() wrappers.