MEDIUM: servers: Add strict-maxconn.

MEDIUM: servers: Add strict-maxconn.

Maxconn is a bit of a misnomer when it comes to servers, as it doesn't
control the maximum number of connections we establish to a server, but
the maximum number of simultaneous requests. So add "strict-maxconn",
that will make it so we will never establish more connections than
maxconn.
It extends the meaning of the "restricted" setting of
tune.takeover-other-tg-connections, as it will also attempt to get idle
connections from other thread groups if strict-maxconn is set.