HTTP/3: fixed handling of :authority and Host with port.

HTTP/3: fixed handling of :authority and Host with port.

RFC 9114, Section 4.3.1. specifies a restriction for :authority and Host
coexistence in an HTTP/3 request:

: If both fields are present, they MUST contain the same value.

Previously, this restriction was correctly enforced only for portless
values.  When Host contained a port, the request failed as if :authority
and Host were different, regardless of :authority presence.

This happens because the value of r->headers_in.server used for :authority
has port stripped.  The fix is to use r->host_start / r->host_end instead.