MEDIUM: stream-int/stream: Use connect expiration instead of SI expiration

MEDIUM: stream-int/stream: Use connect expiration instead of SI expiration

The expiration date in the stream-interface was only used on the server side
to set the connect, queue or turn-around timeout. It was checked on the
frontend stream-interface, but never used concretely. So it was removed and
replaced by a connect expiration date in the stream itself. Thus, SI_FL_EXP
flag in stream-interfaces is replaced by a stream flag, SF_CONN_EXP.