MINOR: cli: ability to set per-server maxconn

MINOR: cli: ability to set per-server maxconn

This commit adds support for setting a per-server maxconn from the stats
socket. The only really notable part of this commit is that we need to
check if maxconn == minconn before changing things, as this indicates
that we are NOT using dynamic maxconn. When we are not using dynamic
maxconn, we should update maxconn/minconn in lockstep.