MEDIUM: checks: simplify stopping mode notification using srv_set_stopping()

MEDIUM: checks: simplify stopping mode notification using srv_set_stopping()

Function check_set_server_drain() used to set a server into stopping state.
Now it first checks if all configured checks are UP, and if the possibly
tracked servers is not stopped, and only calls set_srv_stopping() after
that. That also simplified the conditions to call the function, and its
logic. The function was also renamed check_notify_stopping() to better
report this change.