MEDIUM: stream-int: do not allocate a connection in parallel to applets

MEDIUM: stream-int: do not allocate a connection in parallel to applets

When we know we're not going to use a connection on a stream interface
because we're using an applet instead, do not allocate a connection, or
release the preallocated one. We do that for peers and CLI only at the
moment, and not for HTTP stats which in the future might be adapted to
support keep-alive.

The connection pointer is simply set to NULL, which pool_free2() already
supports.