CLEANUP: ssl: make inclusion of openssl headers safe

CLEANUP: ssl: make inclusion of openssl headers safe

It's always a pain to have to stuff lots of #ifdef USE_OPENSSL around
ssl headers, it even results in some of them appearing in a random order
and multiple times just to benefit form an existing ifdef block. Let's
make these headers safe for inclusion when USE_OPENSSL is not defined,
they now perform the test themselves and do nothing if USE_OPENSSL is
not defined. This allows to remove no less than 8 such ifdef blocks
and make include blocks more readable.