[MINOR] session: differenciate between accepted connections and received connections

[MINOR] session: differenciate between accepted connections and received connections

Now we're able to reject connections very early, so we need to use a
different counter for the connections that are received and the ones
that are accepted and converted into sessions, so that the rate limits
can still apply to the accepted ones. The session rate must still be
used to compute the rate limit, so that we can reject undesired traffic
without affecting the rate.