MINOR: stream-int: add a new blocking condition on the remote connection

MINOR: stream-int: add a new blocking condition on the remote connection

There are some situations where we need to wait for the other side to
be connected. None of the current blocking flags support this. It used
to work more or less by accident using the old flags. Let's add a new
flag to mention we're blocking on this, it's removed by si_chk_rcv()
when a connection is established. It should be enough for now.