MAJOR: stream interface: remove the ->release function pointer

MAJOR: stream interface: remove the ->release function pointer

Since last commit, we now have a pointer to the applet in the
applet context. So we don't need the si->release function pointer
anymore, it can be extracted from applet->applet.release. At many
places, the ->release function was still tested for real connections
while it is only limited to applets, so most of them were simply
removed. For the remaining valid uses, a new inline function
si_applet_release() was added to simplify the check and the call.