HTTP/3: postponed session creation to init() callback.

HTTP/3: postponed session creation to init() callback.

Now the session object is assigned to c->data while ngx_http_connection_t
object is referenced by its http_connection field, similar to
ngx_http_v2_connection_t and ngx_http_request_t.

The change allows to eliminate v3_session field from ngx_http_connection_t.
The field was under NGX_HTTP_V3 macro, which was a source of binary
compatibility problems when nginx/module is build with/without HTTP/3 support.

Postponing is essential since c->data should retain the reference to
ngx_http_connection_t object throughout QUIC handshake, because SSL callbacks
ngx_http_ssl_servername() and ngx_http_ssl_alpn_select() rely on this.