[MAJOR] timeouts and retries could be ignored when switching backend

[MAJOR] timeouts and retries could be ignored when switching backend

When switching from a frontend to a backend, the "retries" parameter
was not kept, resulting in the impossibility to reconnect after the
first connection failure. This problem was reported and analyzed by
Krzysztof Oledzki.

While fixing the code, it appeared that some of the backend's timeouts
were not updated in the session when using "use_backend" or "default_backend".
It seems this had no impact but just in case, it's better to set them as
they should have been.