MINOR: connection: get rid of the CO_FL_ADDR_*_SET flags

MINOR: connection: get rid of the CO_FL_ADDR_*_SET flags

Just like for the conn_stream, now that these addresses are dynamically
allocated, there is no single case where the pointer is set without the
corresponding flag, and the flag is used as a permission to dereference
the pointer. Let's just replace the test of the flag with a test of the
pointer and remove all flag assignment. This makes the code clearer
(especially in "if" conditions) and saves the need for future code to
think about properly setting the flag after setting the pointer.